Count down to prom
Prom is known to be one of the many memorable high school milestones. Kids grow up hearing about their parents experiences, watching it through high school based movies, and awaiting the special night of their own. The classic imagery often involves couples and friends sharing dances, posing for the camera, beautiful dresses, and smiles. But with that being said, people often find a need to incorporate all these aspects into their prom night. Teenagers are left scrambling trying to find the perfect date to go with the perfect outfit. So much time is wasted finding that special someone that the true essence becomes forgotten. Anxiety fills heads leaving individuals worried about feeling overlooked if they don’t show up hand in hand with another. We begin to wonder if attending with one is even worth it.
Student Mateo Correa expressed his worries about not being able to find a date in time. “I don’t know whether I should try asking a girl out or going with my friends. I want to experience the night as best I can and I’m not sure which option will help me get there.”
Sharing the moment with friends
Now more than ever, prom is seen as an opportunity to spend time with close friends. Rather than viewing the night in a romantic perspective, its known to be a chance to commemorate shared experiences throughout high school. Engaging in pre & post prom activities, dress shopping, and planning ride arrangements is all incorporated into the fun. These shared moments often help create stronger bonds, underscoring the value and significance of platonic relationships. Even just the laughter made from small jokes.
Its understandable to want that romantic relationship perspective due to how special the night is. Wearing the corsage, matching the tie with the dress, proposals, its all part of the glitz and glam. But think about it this way, would you really want those memories with someone you had to scramble finding. Its okay when you’re already dating but what if your not? You now have these memories with a random friend. The chances that you’ll still be in contact with that date after highschool is very slim so its more with it to go with your true friends. Mother of 2 Denise Camarneiro stated, “I have not heard from my prom date since graduation. Sometimes I wonder if it was ever worth going with him. Now he’s in all my pictures and memories that could have been made with my friends.”
Serving looks with a side of confidence
Furthermore, attending prom independently is a statement towards self-confidence and worth. It makes you seem bold to the people around you and allows you to have fun without the drama of a date. This can also be great if you’ve spent the last few years of high school in your shell. It’s a chance to project an image of self-confidence, showing your independence to your classmates. This newfound sense of reliance is a valuable asset that can extend beyond the party dance floor. It can help you believe within your own capabilities.
Prom is a celebration of the present moment and what you have accomplished. It is one of the last milestones completed before you graduate. Whether you decide to arrive alone or with someone on your arm, enjoy the moment as much as you can. Prom flies by just like high school does. Be present within the experience and don’t stress over what you cannot control. Savior every last bit of high school that you have left.
